About pressure points and martial arts =/?

well i know i'm not much of a fighter i only like to fight the way i know but there's a friend who learns martial arts and he used to learn also ju jitsu so he's practically unbeatable lool neway i don't want to hurt him but he always picks up with me and tries some new moves and sometimes he uses pressure points and i can't escape from it..the last time he did a pressure point on my neck, my neck hurted for a whole day..i wanted to ask if u could give me some hints how to defend myself and how maybe to turn a bit the situation and do me something to him..don't get me wrong he doesn;t wnat to hurt me he only jokes but i always finish hurting..and pls don't tell me to leave him cause he's a maniac or something like that i only want some advices to defend a bit myself..and don't tell me to avoid fighting him cause i only defend myself!! plsss help me if u can =)

About pressure points and martial arts =/?
Well as long as you say it is under control then I would have to agree with the first statement made, learn some pressure points as well in reverse. counter moves are always the best when someone is at you and wont let you go, you have to use self defense techniques that cause minimal harm and temporary with those pressure points.





To learn these though you should really have a physical teacher show you them safely. One safe one I know is directly behind the ear lobes with your fingertips both hands on both ears. hurts like heck while pressure is applied. great for making someone let you go. Have fun learning, but do find a teacher it is the best way to learn them safely!!
Reply:Why don't you learn a few pressure points yourself and give it back to him? You could learn where the points are and what they do and give him a "dead arm" or something and that'd make it easier for you to win your practice fight.





The only other thing I could say would be that by learning where the points are, you'd be better able to stop him from getting to yours.
Reply:Two words soft tissue. When he gets you in a position where you feel threatened grab and twist some soft tissue (IE. neck skin, underarm hair, inside bicep skin, lumbar skin, purple nurples, inside thigh, or any leg hair that might be exposed. simple and clean most times effective (epically when surprised) and you don't need to know massive amount of knowledge about pressure points and how they work.