Will you choose men who like boxing, martial arts, Muay Thai, Karate, dojo, Taekwondo, Aikodo,..use violence?

(1) some men want to date me, but they like boxing,....karate..Martial arts...the activities on the above caption...I am afraid they will fight their girlfriends or wives.


(1) why men like Muay Thai, Karate, dojo, Taekwondo, Aikodo, boxing, artial arts? what is the puropose of learning them?


(2) Boxing needs strength, men who like boxing should be very strong and their weight will be heavy i think.


(3) Is that because they like fighting and use violence?


(4) Is the possibility of those men fighting their wife more than men who don't like the above activities?


(5) maybe they tend to use violence to solve all problem in daily life?


(6) Do you think i should date with them?


(7) If you were me, will you choose them? I am petite and weak and i cannot protect myself if they use violence


(8) Any lady here who has this kind of boyfriend or husband and can give me advice?


(9) Any men here can give me advice or tell me the thought of men who like those activities?

Will you choose men who like boxing, martial arts, Muay Thai, Karate, dojo, Taekwondo, Aikodo,..use violence?
A violent person is a violent person. Learning martial arts does not make you a worse person, it makes you a better person. Martial arts teaches you how to channel your emotions. I think you need to learn some, actually, so you can feel more secure and confident and know how to protect yourself if you are so worried about violent men out there. Seriously. Sounds like it would do you a world of good.
Reply:I lke al ze activities above. Bt its nt necessary tht a boy practising al zes activities 2 b violent. They cn b nice bt fren thm 1st knw thm thn choose Mr Right
Reply:wow someone is narrow minded.. most of the martial arts you listed are forms of self defense. others are exercises in discipline
Reply:Dude, too big.





I kickbox, and i'm a girl and i love it. I don't use violence in everyday life. Most people don't. Martial arts are generally really good for learning discipline and self-control. Men who hit their wives generally arent focused, disciplined or self-controlled, so i don't see a correlation there.





Maybe you should take it up? Its a great workout and will help you feel stronger - start with something like capoiera which is a dance/boxing/spin mix. It makes you more confident, more secure in your body and yourself
Reply:what is wrong with you? maybe they like it because it's good to learn self-defense and you get in great shape, not every guy who is a martial artist is a woman beater. hell there are guys who are weak as water that are woman beaters, please get over it. like them for who they are and stop stereotyping. i do martial arts (muay thai) and i'm a girl. would you expect me to be all manly and tough? well i'm a cheerleader, i wear pink ALL the time and i have a valley accent, go figure. and grow up.
Reply:well, maybe the people that go to fake dojos don't think it's violent, but I was trained authentic Muay Thai in Thailand and it's violent and bloody
Reply:.guys who do that are least likey to beat their significant other in my opinion b/c they let out they're aggression via martial arts (b/c i play rugby and i let out all of my aggression there so it overall keeps me a very happy nonviolent person)





.it teaches people disapline, helps them learn to focus, the point of learning them would be so they can protect themselves and there loved ones





.it could be b/c they just like fighting, or b/c it looks cool like in the movies, or they need to learn self disapline, or they think its sexy, there are TONS of very different reasons for wanting to in the 1st place





.there is always some kind of stat for #4 but i think (for martial arts anyways) that it lessens the possiblility(self disapline people!!!)





.uh, no, #5 is a stupid question





.if you want to go for it, it they are sexy and have a good personality it would be stupid not to date them, you shouldn't have to ask someone this kinda stuff





..kick them in the balls, and carry pepper spray if you really think its an issue, use common sense, if the guy is a creeper uh, don't go out with him!








-overall, it depends on the kind of person they are for all of these questions. if you get the violent vibe from them, no dice, stay away, but if they seem nice ect ect then why not?
Reply:Ok lady, I will answer your question.





There are some kinds of guys to watch out for...





Stay away from any guy who uses steroids. Steroids mess people up, and can cause "'roid rage", which means the drugs can cause sudden violent anger. Some misguided males use steroids so they can train harder and heal faster. (I.e. most professional athletes nowadays, unfortunately).





Otherwise, watch out for guys who want to control you too much, as that can be a sign of an abusive type.





Otherwise, guys like their sports, and most guys who do martial arts etc. actually can develop more control over their aggression, not less. But, their are always some idiots in everything, and there is a lot of macho "I am tough" posturing in the martial arts.





So, if that turns you off, find a concert pianist.





But some of them abuse their wives too, so you can't win.





(Maybe you should be the one learning to box!)





Good luck....

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